Purple Heart Day: Reflections from a Military Spouse
Written by Maddison Bailey
What Purple Heart Day Means
Every year on August 7th, we pause as a military community to say “thank you” to the millions of men and women who have served, been wounded, and carry the visible and invisible scars of war. As a military spouse, Purple Heart Day holds deep meaning for me — it reminds me that behind every medal is a family, a circle of military support, and a story of strength and sacrifice.
Purple Heart Day is our nation’s chance to honor these brave injured veterans and their military families who walk alongside them. It represents not only the wounds that war leaves on our service members but also the resilience that binds our military community together.
History of the Purple Heart Medal
On August 7th, 1782, General George Washington created the Badge of Military Merit to recognize extraordinary bravery. It wasn’t awarded again until 1932, when General Douglas MacArthur revived it as the Purple Heart medal, honoring soldiers wounded or killed in battle. By 1942, the War Department made the Purple Heart the only medal to officially recognize wounds or death in combat.
Today, the Purple Heart remains the oldest military award presented to American service members. Each medal represents a sacrifice — and a story that military families like mine carry in our hearts daily.
The Ripple Effect of Sacrifice
The wounds of war transcend barriers. They know no position, no rank, no boundary.. They do not turn on at work and off at home — they are all-consuming. They follow our wounded warriors and their families into every corner of life.
Acknowledging these sacrifices means recognizing that the cost of war doesn’t end on the battlefield. For injured veterans, it’s a lifelong journey. The scars, whether seen or hidden, weigh heavily on both those who bear them and those who love them.
Picture a heavy rock dropped into still water. The initial splash is sudden and forceful, but the ripples extend far beyond the point of impact. The size of the stone may vary, but it always disturbs the calm. So it is with the wounds of war: the effects radiate through families, relationships, careers, and futures.
However, having the right support system to help calm the waters can make all the difference. Through compassion and community, peace can be found. And in these moments of peace, healing can begin.
How ASYMCA Supports Families Behind the Uniform
Organizations like the Armed Services YMCA (ASYMCA) play a vital role in caring for the military community. They stand with military families — especially those of injured veterans — to ensure they never feel alone.
From special events to family-focused programs, ASYMCA helps strengthen resilience and connection:
- Hearts for Heroes Fishing Trip – ASYMCA Hampton Roads offers an annual fishing trip in the Chesapeake Bay, where wounded, injured, and ill veterans of all service-related operations, along with their caregivers, can enjoy a day on the bay filled with camaraderie and community.
- Military Spouse Summer Camp – ASYMCA Alaska partners with ConocoPhillips Alaska and the Wounded Warrior Project to provide a weekend retreat for military spouses to recharge and connect in the great outdoors of Alaska!
- Wounded, Injured, and Ill Services – ASYMCA San Diego partners with the Naval Medical Center San Diego to provide Warrior Care Initiative support, urgent needs assistance, patient support, Littlest Warriors gift bags, and recreation services to individuals hospitalized or receiving outpatient care.
ASYMCA also brings comfort and stability to children of military families:
- Operation Hero – An after-school program helping military children adjust to the unique challenges of military life.
- Hidden Helpers – For kids who care for, or are impacted by, an injured veteran or service member.
- Operation Kid Comfort – Custom quilts and pillowcases provide comfort to children separated from their military parent.
How We Can All Show Support
You too can help honor Purple Heart Day and pay your respects to those who have paid a heavy price for this nation.
- Attend an event like a golf tournament, 5K, or half marathon
- Partner with the Purple Heart Foundation
- Donate to a military support organization
- Volunteer with the Wounded Warrior Project
- Volunteer with ASYMCA
- Visit the National Purple Heart Hall of Honor
Even a simple “thank you” to a Purple Heart family can bear the greatest of gratitude.
It’s also important to remember that although we publicly honor these heroes once a year, they are Purple Heart recipients every day. Opportunities to provide support are always available.
Strength in Sacrifice
This August 7th, I’ll be reflecting not only as part of the military community but as a military spouse who knows firsthand the quiet battles fought at home. Injured veterans and Purple Heart families show us what resilience truly looks like.
With organizations like ASYMCA and the unwavering support of our military community, these families find hope, connection, and the strength to move forward. Together, we can make sure their sacrifices are always seen, supported, and appreciated. You can help by making a donation today to support military families in need — every contribution makes a difference.