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The Power Within: Embracing Resilience in the Life of a Military Kid

I will admit, being a military child is tough. Moving all the time isn’t easy, leaving friends isn’t fun, and having parents work what feels like twenty-four seven is disappointing. No need to despair, though! Read on to find ways to deal with it that I would like to share.

How do I deal with moving all the time? Well, I like to think of it as a fresh start and chance to go some where new. When moving, lots of people will think something along the lines of “I have to leave my home” but that’s not really true. Your home is where your family is, it is where you feel welcomed and at ease. I am moving in one or two months for the fifth time! I am at home now and I will be when I move too! It is all hard but these are some tips and tricks that help you along the way.

How do I make it easier for myself when I have to leave friends? Truthfully, I have never been really good at this. I often try to find a way to keep in touch with them at least until I have made new friends by either getting their phone number so I can text them or their address so I can send them letter. I also try to think of all the new people I will meet. Also spend time with you siblings or your parents. Having someone to hang out with will make you feel better. I hope you can think of some other things that would make you feel better as well.

How do I put up with my parent working long hours? My dad works a lot and when he is home, he is often studying. He also goes on trips to North Carolina, Texas, Okinawa, and other places as well. One thing you can do is talk to your sibling about it because they likely feel a similar way. If you don’t have any siblings you can write about, talk to your parents about it, or even talk to your pet about it! It should feel good to express these emotions out loud. Another thing you can do is spend time with them whenever you get a chance. This will help you feel like they are home more often and will give you joyful memories of the fun activities you did with them.

During hard times be resilient, not unsympathetic but flexible and adaptable. Follow these steps and the hardships of being a military child shall be simpler. Every challenge you face is an opportunity to grow stronger and more adaptable.